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Friday, November 27, 2015

Spread Kindness like it is Confetti



"Kindness is a language
that the deaf can hear
and the blind can see"
by Mark Twain


Good Morning,

I hope you all had a wonderful break and now the race is on until our next break. 
During this past week, I spent some time reflecting on moments shared with family, friends and co-workers. The best times are the ones when we are happy, smiling and laughing or providing acts of kindness. Research shows that being kind makes us happy and when you are happy you are more kind.  A wonderful cycle to create. My hope is that we all have a holly, jolly, joyful three weeks together. I read a few articles, watched some videos and pinned a few ideas about kindness that I would like to share.


"Kindness is not difficult.” "It doesn't require any money, any training, any real effort, and you can start right away either individually or as a team. That is the beauty of it! We spend around 2,000 hours a year with our co-workers. Given how much time we spend with them, a little bit of kindness can really go a long way. By committing ourselves to kindness, starting today, we can really make a difference where we work.
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  •  Lead by example
  • Put an end to petty criticism
  •   Welcome new employees with open arms
  •  Recognize one another's strengths, not weaknesses
  • Be nice to the "others

http://www.reliableplant.com/Read/22751/Start-kindness-revolution-at-work


I pinned and saved an activity called the.12 Days of Christmas Kindness. Please send me an email if you would like to view the file and I will send it to you.

Have an awesome week and 
spread Kindness Like Confetti,
Jodie

Friday, November 13, 2015

Happy Thanksgiving!







Happy Thanksgiving everyone! Here are a few little quips and quotes to add a little humor and wisdom to your holiday!
Enjoy...


Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough. --Oprah Winfrey

My cooking is so bad my kids thought Thanksgiving was to commemorate Pearl Harbor.--Phyllis Diller

You can say you ate too much for Thanksgiving when you have to let your bathrobe out. --Jay Leno

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them. --John F. Kennedy

Thanksgiving dinners take eighteen hours to prepare. They are consumed in twelve minutes. Half-times take twelve minutes. This is not coincidence. --Erma Bombeck

I celebrated Thanksgiving in an old-fashioned way. I invited everyone in my neighborhood to my house, we had an enormous feast, and then I killed them and took their land. --Jon Stewart

Give thanks for unknown blessings already on their way. --Native American Saying

With love and many thanks--
Noelle









Thursday, November 12, 2015

Being Thankful!


Good morning Deep Creek Family,
            One more week until Thanksgiving break-YES! We all know, and are aware, we need this time off to share it with loved ones. With Thanksgiving right around the corner it allows us reflect on what we are thankful for. I can honestly say, you all, are one thing I am beyond thankful for. In the past few weeks, not only myself, but you as well, have felt what it’s like to be stressed-whether it be school, home, or in life. We all have those moments in our lives-but we can’t let them define us. We all are strong in our own ways; we have to overcome the obstacles and struggles in our paths through being thankful. I recently read an article on the importance of being thankful and showing gratitude. You would be shocked to hear that by having both, thankfulness and gratitude, we can experience many health benefits. It states people that are grateful may be more likely to:

  • ·         take better care of themselves physically and mentally
  • ·         engage in more protective health behaviors and maintenance
  • ·         get more regular exercise
  • ·         eat a healthier diet
  • ·         have improved mental alertness
  • ·         schedule regular physical examinations with their doctor
  • ·         cope better with stress and daily challenges
  • ·         feel happier and more optimistic
  • ·         avoid problematic physical symptoms
  • ·         have stronger immune systems
  • ·         maintain a brighter view of the future


Who wouldn’t want all these benefits in their life? Below are some simple steps to take so we can reap these health benefits.

Giving Thanks
Focus Attention Outward
Your attitude plays a large role in determining whether you can feel grateful in spite of life’s challenges. According to Emmons, gratitude is defined by your attitude towards both the outside world and yourself. He suggests that those who are more aware of the positives in their lives tend to focus their attention outside of themselves.
Be Mindful of What You Have
You may assume that those with more material possessions have more to be grateful for. However, research suggests otherwise. Edward Diener, a psychology professor at the University of Illinois, found that a high percentage of affluent people in Japan report low levels of life satisfaction, just as those living in poverty in India do. These findings suggest that it’s not how much you have, but how you feel about what you have that makes the difference.
Keep a Gratitude Journal
Recording what you feel grateful for in a journal is a great way to give thanks on a regular basis. Emmons found that those who listed five things they felt grateful for in a weekly gratitude journal reported fewer health problems and greater optimism than those who didn’t. A second study suggests that daily writing led to a greater increase in gratitude than weekly writing.
Reframe Situations as Positive
It’s not actually a challenging situation that is upsetting. It’s how you perceive the situation. The next time you find yourself complaining about life’s hassles, see if you can mentally “flip the switch” to frame things differently. For example, rather than getting down about missing an opportunity, try to see the positive side. You might now have more time to direct towards other priorities.
With this being said, I wish you all a great week before break. Enjoy your week off from work and take some time to relax.  I can’t thank you enough for all that you do for myself, and our school, you all are amazing Deep Creek Cub leaders!

Kristina

http://www.healthline.com/health/depression/giving-thanks#3

Sunday, November 8, 2015

Remember we are in this together

Dear Deep Creek Family, 

We all know that successful relationships between Deep Creek Elementary and our students' homes is crucial for their success.  We all also know that sometimes it is often difficult to build these relationships with parents.  I know many of you feel that you are often pinpointed with all the blame if a student in not controlling his behavior, having trouble socially, or struggling academically, however the connection between school and home is important and we can not give up on trying to build that relationship.  I am not an expert on interacting with parents, but I do want to share my thoughts on building this relationship.
  1. Parents/Guardians are our stakeholders; we have to make time for them
  2. Remember our student is their "Baby" and their "pride and joy"
  3. Communicate with them regularly and timely
  4. Truly listen and let their point be valued and heard
  5. Look at problems from their perspective
  6. Do not become defensive or look to place blame
  7. Communicate that we are a team trying to help their child
  8. Follow through with the plan you create, even if parent does not
Even after following all these items, building this relationship is sometimes still tough, but we still can not give up.  Remember not all of our parents were the "shining stars" when they were in school, some of them struggled, were picked on, or hated going to school.  They come to our conferences and our school functions with a negative attitude of the educational system.  We have to be patient and show them that we care about their children.  If there is one thing I want emphasize on this MMM it's that we have to be a team; they have to know we care about their child.  Children know your heart.  They know whether you are real.  They communicate this to their parents and this builds trust. It is not US against Them, for the students we have to work together.

I have attached a Thinking Map of adjectives that describe the best practices for parent teacher interactions as well as this website with more tips for effective Parent and Teacher communication.
www.teaching.about.com/od/pd/a/Parent-And-Teacher-Communication.htm



Thank you all for what you do each and every day.  I know I need to say it more, but I appreciate everything you all do to make Deep Creek a great place for children.  Have a great week.

James